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recent survey of more than 1100 personnel administrators
concluded that drug and alcohol abuse are more likely
to cost a person their job than incompetence. Drug abuse
has affected every area of society; the music business
is no exception. Some believe that drug addiction is
more pervasive in show business, while others counter
that this perception exists only because of the high-profile
nature of the industry.
The fact that drug addiction crops up everywhere suggests
that it is an illness particular to human nature, not
a specific industry. There is little solace in this
however, when a musician you know becomes difficult
to get along with, unreliable or untrustworthy, incapable
of performing, or even violent due to their worsening
drug or alcohol problem. It would be wonderful if we
lived in a world free of drugs and drug addiction, but
until that day arrives musicians may find themselves
inadvertently working with others who have become victims
of this very serious illness. What follows is some helpful
perspective and advice for those who are struggling
with this situation, or those who simply wish to know
more about it. There are a myriad of attitudes concerning
drug addiction, and drug addicts. (From here on we will
refer to persons addicted to drugs and/or alcohol as
one group: drug addicts.)
Unfortunately, there are still those who believe this
condition to be the result of poor judgement, or perhaps
a flawed character. The consensus among modern health
care professionals, including the American Medical Association
(AMA), is that drug addiction is a disease. Theories
concerning its origins embody the classic "nature
vs. nurture" arguments: Does one become an addict
because of genetics, environment and upbringing, or
a combination thereof? It may be safely concluded that
the origins of drug addiction are many, and complex.
Cultivating an awareness of this issue begins with the
realization that drug addicts are not necessarily bad
people, but rather victims of their illness. Some people
have what is known as an addictive personality - a predisposition
to become dependent on a certain lifestyle, or substance.
Examples are compulsive eaters or gamblers, those who
accumulate excessive debt, and drug addicts, who become
addicted to substances. For the drug addict, a simple
"just say no" is insufficient. The nature
of their illness is such that they have not naturally
developed the kind of rational self-control that allows
most people to remain free of addiction.
Addicts become mired in their habit without realizing
that a problem is developing, and they practice denial
in order to maintain their increasingly fragile world.
The drug addict will go to great lengths to deny that
their use of drugs is the reason for a deteriorating
situation. They tend to blame their problems on those
around them, including friends, co-workers, and loved
ones. Being in a band with such a person is very, very
difficult if that person is hostile and blaming, when
it's obvious that the drug habit is the real problem.
Most groups will tolerate this situation for a while,
hoping the problem "solves itself" by merely
disappearing, or that the addict will respond to suggestions,
or even ultimatums that they "clean up their act."
Ultimatums may be temporarily effective, but unless
the addict seeks true rehabilitation, problems will
invariably recur.
Sadly, many addicts lose their jobs and are left alone,
denying responsibility, blaming the band member(s) responsible
for his or her firing. When a musician loses his or
her job, it's because the other band members have been
forced to make a choice. A band is a unique environment:
one third team, one third business, one third family.
It's very difficult to discharge a member of this "family"
when the person is in such obvious trouble and pain.
And yet, that person is most likely not contributing
fully to the team effort, and may actually be severely
damaging to the business effort. A band may have to
cancel engagements, or whole tours if a crucial member
is unable to perform, and the situation becomes more
critical when the other member's livelihood, including
the ability to feed a family, or pay rent or a mortgage
is threatened.
Every drug addict is an individual, and the demands
of every band's situation vary, but there are limits
to the number of times band members are able to give
the addict the benefit of the doubt, and to the number
of broken promises a band is able to endure. The past
decade has seen increased awareness of and concern for
drug addicts, and increased ability to effectively treat
their illness. There are full-time self-help groups
such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), and its first cousin
Narcotics Anonymous (NA) dedicated to providing drug
addicts with help and support. There are many other
public and private organizations with similar goals,
including those oriented towards helping "concerned
persons" - the family, friends, and co-workers
of addicts. One of these groups is an excellent place
for band members to go for help with bringing one of
their own to rehabilitation. While AA and NA offer free
support, private rehabilitation facilities can be very
costly. The costs and types of rehabilitation programs
vary however, and the addition of substance abuse to
the list of illnesses recognized by the AMA has made
treatment for drug addiction eligible for coverage under
many health insurance policies.
In the health care industry, it's believed that in order
for rehabilitation to succeed, an addict must sincerely
want to be helped. There is a natural tendency, in observing
a person's debilitating addiction, to try to help the
addict with a heart-to-heart talk, to try to "bring
them to their senses." As well-intentioned as this
may be, most addicts feel they don't want help, instead
believing they have no problem, or that those outside
their situation don't understand. It's also possible
for a talk of this nature to backfire, leaving the addict
alienated and angry with his or her friends. It may
be more helpful to have a recovering (rehabilitated)
addict talk to the addict, someone who does understand,
someone who has been there and made it back.
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